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Build Your Mentoring Network: National Mentoring Month 2018

A single mentor is rarely one-size-fits-all for the different goals, roles, and developmental needs in your life. We all need multiple mentors, or rather a network of mentors, for the different challenges that we face. As we celebrate National Mentoring Month this January, consider the gaps where you need to be cultivating mentoring relationships to support you in your growth and development. We could all benefit from several mentors as we navigate our professional lives, make decisions about our career, and face challenges and opportunities personally.

Below, see the stories of Wake Foresters who have intentionally built mentoring networks to guide them throughout various aspects of their lives. Use their experiences to learn how to increase your own network of mentors. Additionally, check out our tips for how to find and seek out mentors as you grow your network and upcoming mentoring workshops for students, faculty, staff, and alumni.


Shelley Sizemore (’06, MA ’09)
Director of Academic Programs, Pro Humanitate Center, WFU

Sam Salin (’14)
Senior Analyst at Hovde Group, Chicago, IL

Heather Bolt Mikeal (’10)
Leonard Ryden Burr Real Estate, Winston-Salem, NC


How to Find and Seek Out Mentoring Relationships

Most often, informal mentoring relationships develop organically out of previously-established interpersonal relationships with faculty, staff, alumni, colleagues, or peers. But it is also possible to seek out a formal mentoring relationship. Before you do, check out these tips for finding a mentor and spend some time thinking about the following questions:

  1. What is your goal? What are you going to work on in this relationship?
  2. What do you need to achieve that goal?
  3. Who is best suited to fill that role? Someone you already know? Or, do you need to ask for recommendations?

After you have answered these questions and created a list of potential mentors, it is important to reach out and to assess the other person’s interest. Talk about your goals and explain why you want to be in a mentoring relationship. Express your interest and the qualities that you are looking for in a mentor, and then ask the person if they would be interested and willing and would have the time to serve as your mentor.

If the answer is no, thank the potential mentor for his candor, and move on to the next person on the list. He is not saying no because he does not like you, but because he does not feel that he has the time or ability to commit to this relationship. The most important qualification of a mentor is someone who has the time, the interest, and the willingness to build a mentoring relationship with you. If the answer is yes, then you can begin the mentoring relationship.

So how might you find potential formal or informal mentors outside of the organically-developed interpersonal relationships that you already have? Consider using the following resources:

Finally, if you are a faculty or staff member, or in a mentoring role with students, check out our Quick Guide to Helping Your Students Build Their Mentoring Networks:

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